Self-development can feel like it has to be squeezed in.
- Laura Hunter
- Nov 10, 2023
- 1 min read

Does self-development feel like a luxury?
Do you feel as though you don’t have the time or headspace to focus on yourself?
Do you feel guilty for considering prioritising yourself?
Recently, I met with an amazing client for our first coaching session. They're super busy- lots of juggling and spinning of plates. They came to our session with some notes and apologised that they were written on the back of a child’s colouring sheet.
We reflected on how indicative this was of their reality; how it summed up the sheer busyness of life and how prioritising ourselves - even for a small amount of a day, a week, or month - can feel impossible. Like it has to be squeezed in.
You’ll hear me talk about this a lot, because it's a consistent thread in coaching conversations with clients. How self-development can feel:
*Self indulgent.
*Too time consuming.
*Too much of an effort when you’re shattered!
*Like you should be doing something more 'productive'.
I get it, I really do. This resonates, deeply.
However, I promise you that:
*It is worth the effort.
*You won’t regret spending the time (even a small amount of time) focussing on you.
*You deserve it.
I'd love to hear from you about:
What small step you could take, today, to prioritise yourself in a way that feels right for you.
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